Now, If your a parent then your more than likely heard of the brand Milton, well what if I told you it isn't just for sterilising items ...

8 Simple Life hacks with Milton [AD]

Now, If your a parent then your more than likely heard of the brand Milton, well what if I told you it isn't just for sterilising items like baby bottles and food containers... You'd think I'm mad! But, we've learnt some really great life hacks and Milton have sent us some great products to put to the test!



Hack 1...Whitens school shirts:
Mix 1 part Milton and 3 parts boiling water, soak the shirt for 2 hours then put it on a white wash, it whitens your shirts like new, Allthough it doesn't get the marker pen off if that's what your after! Still a great hack though!

Hack 2...Milton Bath:
The active ingredient in Milton is Sodium Hypochlorite which helps with skin conditions such as eczma and Impetigo, run a bath and add half a cap full of Milton sterilising liquid to the bath and voilla!
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Hack 3...Save your flowers:
You can add a couple of drops of Milton liquid into your vase and it will help your flowers live longer!

Hack 4...stained coffee mugs:
Use a few drops in the sink and diltue with water, let the cups sit for 3-5 mins and rinse off with warm water.

Hack 5...cleaning shoes:
Milton can clean your shoes! I'm serious!
Using fluid or sterilising tablets to clean your shoes and make them fresh, no one likes a dirty scuffed shoe so simply wipe down the edges and leave to dry.
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Hack 6...Disinfect your home:
Milton sterilising tablets or fluid can be used to clean down cupboards, lamps, tables, doorknobs, railings or even radiators to keep away those nasty germs.

Hack 7...Clean your garden:
Gardens can often grow mold and midew on glass houses or flower pots ect.. Milton can help by cleaning down to get rid of mould, always test on a small patch first of your cleaning garden furniture.

Hack 8...Toys:
We all know toys can get filthy with sticky hands or chocolate and they all need a clean sometimes to get rid of those stains and germs, use Milton fluid or even Wipes to get rid of those pesky germs so toys look good as new.

Let me know what you use milton products for In the comments below and if you have any life hacks share them too!

It’s cold, it’s dark, it's January. With so many of us feeling the January blues it is no wonder that this month is a popular one for b...

3 Exciting Family Holidays

It’s cold, it’s dark, it's January. With so many of us feeling the January blues it is no wonder that this month is a popular one for booking our summer holidays. Booking a holiday gives us something fun to look forward to and keep us going through the gloomy days. If you are looking for a little inspiration, then you have come to the right place as today we are sharing with you 3 exciting family holidays. Which one will you choose? 

Disney World
Disney World in Orlando, Florida, might just be the ultimate exciting family holiday.
Disney World has four theme parks, Magic Kingdom, Animal Kingdom, Epcot and Hollywood Studios, along with two water parks all spread out over a huge area also encompassing several resorts, shops, entertainment and restaurants. There is more than enough to do there for families and you would not need to leave Disney property during your entire holiday if you didn’t want to. You would not get bored!
However, if you wanted a break away from Disney, there are plenty of other things to see and do in Orlando and the white sandy beaches of the coast might tempt you.
If the magic of Disney is calling to you, you might want to read about Planning a Disneycation in Florida.
Cruising 
Cruising is becoming a popular family holiday choice and it is easy to see why. Cruising covers every base for you, as it's an all-inclusive holiday, you get to see several destinations, there's no end of family entertainment and activities, all with the excitement of travelling onboard a ship. 
Cruising holidays enable you to get out and see the world. You could explore islands in the Mediterranean, maybe you will cruise the famous Nile River or perhaps the Caribbean is calling to you. You can take in so many different sights and cultures whilst on a cruise, without having to deal with the inconvenience of moving from hotel to hotel and long road trips. 
The ships themselves normally boast several swimming pools, cinemas and theatres, plenty of restaurants to choose from and a variety of sports, clubs and activities to get involved with, perfect for those days at sea. 
If you are fascinated by the idea of cruising, you might want to contact Bolsover Cruise Club for guidance and inspiration. 
Adventure holiday 
If you are looking for something a little different, you might want to try a family adventure holiday.
There are a wide variety of holidays available, it all depends on just how adventurous your family wants to be. You might go for a camping trip in the forest, roughing it in the wild for a few days. Or perhaps that is too tame for your family and you are looking for an adrenaline-filled break, complete with white water rafting, abseiling and rock climbing.
The fun thing about these breaks is that you can take on the activities that appeal to you whilst heading to the destination that you are most eager to explore. You can check out this list for more adventure holiday inspiration.


While creating a new life is one of the most satisfying things any woman can do, it’s also a time rife with mental health concerns. Everyth...

Mental Health And Your IVF Journey

While creating a new life is one of the most satisfying things any woman can do, it’s also a time rife with mental health concerns. Everything from postpartum depression to high levels of pregnancy anxiety can creep in. These, paired with a lack of sleep, can often leave women in a dark mental hole. And, that’s if all runs medically ‘smoothly’ during pregnancy and birth! 

When things don’t go according to plan, those mental health concerns only rise in prevalence. Couples who embark on IVF, in particular, often find that the journey of starting or expanding their family goes from a dream to a nightmare, and mental health can significantly suffer as a result. But, with many experts suggesting that high stress levels can impact fertility, as well as passing to a baby during pregnancy, you should address this issue sooner rather than later with the following coping strategies. 


Find healthier focuses for your mind

After each IVF session, you may find that you can’t think about anything else, and that’s the first red flag where mental health is concerned. Our first suggestion is, therefore, to find healthier things to focus on. Meditation and gentle yoga are fantastic for this, as are various other types of exercise. While women undergoing treatment will want to take it easy, gentle options like walking and light jogging should always remain within reach. 

Seek support from people who know what you’re experiencing

Couples should take a great deal of support from each other during IVF but, for women especially, this may not be enough. While your partner is still understandably worried, they can’t fully grasp the physical impact treatment can have. Hence why you may also find it useful to reach out to other IVF recipients. There are plenty of forums online to make this possible and, once you start airing your concerns to people in the know, you may find that your anxiety at least starts to ease a little. 

Don’t stretch yourself with a stacked schedule

IVF can entail a fair few appointments, each of which takes around twenty minutes. If you’re trying to squeeze these between work, your stress levels will start soaring before implantation even occurs. Pair this with the worry you can expect down the line, and it’s hardly surprising your mental health is at risk. Do yourself a favour by booking time off work where you can. You may even find it useful to talk to your boss about flexible working so you can fit appointments into your days with ease. And, of course, you should seek a nearby clinic so that appointments are as quick and stress-free as they possibly can be. 

A journey like IVF is never going to be easy, but, as you can see, it doesn’t need to take a significant toll on your mental health if you remain aware of the risks. Simply practice kindness as much as you can through the journey, and fingers crossed that you receive the outcome you’re hoping for.

Zimpli kids sent us a whole range of goodies to try and they are so much fun I love it! If you don't remember we did a post with Zimply...

BIG Fun With Zimply Kids

Zimpli kids sent us a whole range of goodies to try and they are so much fun I love it! If you don't remember we did a post with Zimply Kids last year and had such a blast with Snowballs, Slime And Jelli Fun!



This year we got brand new products to try, like the Chocolate Emoji Maker, crackle baff and of course some snoball fun for the festive season and Princess pink Gelli Baff to get all gooey!

First up we tried the Gelli Baff and had so much fun with it making piles of Gelli, Lilli and Laten got in the bath with it and said it felt incredibly strange, it was really bright pink and took about 15 seconds to change from water to Gelli we were really supprised!

Girl with swim suit on in bathtub with Gelli baff

Next we tried the snoball play and lilli used the snow for her dolls to play in it was so much fun, we followed the simple instructions to make the solution and it was really quick and easy, lilli loved helping make it and we had so much fun playing!

Lastly we tried the crackle baff, it was incredibly fun, now we didn't actually try this in the bath and just had it in a large bowl because lilli wasn't feeling the bath that night.
That being said, it was so much fun to feel and listen too and made hardly any mess at all.

Allthough we got sent the Chocolate Emoji Maker we haven't yet tried it because of the hustle and bustle of Christmas and new year but we'll definitely let you all know how it goes when we do! Make sure to keep and eye on our Instagram :)

We had so much trying all these from Zimpli Kids and they really do make awesome presents or even just a treat to have a little fun. Go check out their social media too just search Zimpli Kids.

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Helping Your Child Feel More Comfortable



As a parent, it can be easy to wish the best for your child. You know that growing as a brand new human is not always the easiest thing to do, and so we love to care for our children as much as possible. What could possibly be wrong with that? Provided we do not overly mother them or restrict them to the point of overbearing cover, caring for your child in this way is nothing but healthy.

Helping your child feel more comfortable, throughout the various metaphorical and literal teething issues that occur as they grow, can be a healthy thing to help them experience. Sometimes medical maladies or growth issues can cause them to feel discomfort and unhappiness, and none of us wish to see our children going through that.

So, helping your child feel more comfortable in a healthy manner is definitely worth thinking about, and investing in so you have the right tools to apply to the right situation. With the following advice, we hope you can achieve that:

Medicine & Injury Care

It’s unfortunate, but sooner or later your child is going to find some ingenious means in which they can injure themselves. We might think back to our childhoods to remember just how true this is. Of course, you as the parent this time, you have an obligation to help them recover from their mistake, no matter how much you warned them against making it. Stocking a medicine cabinet with paracetamol for kids, a first aid kid, learning how to bandage or hold certain harmed joins or clean and cover cuts and bruises can help you either commit to a healing resolution then and there, or provide them the best care before you find them further professional help.

Sleep Hygiene

Without your help, a child will often default to staying up all night and then sleeping all day. This is because it’s the easiest thing in the world to avoid bedtime, but we all know just how testing and troubled an overtired child can be. As such, ensuring they have a regular sleep time each night, reading to them to help them feel safe, outfitting their bed with comforting blankets and a night light in their bedroom will help them make a friend of bedtime, not an enemy.

Safety & Comfort

Letting them know you’re there can be a worthwhile means of helping them feel safe. A security blanket can help some children who feel afraid at night, while sometimes pretending that you’ve gotten rid of any perceived monster by first letting them know how fictional they are, and then doing a fun ‘banishment’ ritual could be a worthwhile combo. Simply being there when they need you, attending to them if they cry, and allowing your door to remain open at night could also be a reliable means of helping them relax. Every child deserves to feel comfortable in their own home, after all.

With this advice, we hope you can help your child feel comfortable as they develop over the years.

Doing your own little renovations and interior decorations is a lot of fun, but most people are worried that they’ll either ruin their home...

Beautiful DIY Shelves in 4 Simple Steps

Doing your own little renovations and interior decorations is a lot of fun, but most people are worried that they’ll either ruin their home or that it’ll cost too much. As a result, they’ll typically ask other people or even consider speaking to a contractor, especially if it’s a relatively large project.

Thankfully, performing your own little DIY renovations is easy if you know how. So in this article, we’re going to help you design and put together some beautiful DIY shelves in just four simple steps.


1. Plan your shelves

One of the first things to do is plan out your shelving ideas. This is where shelving inspiration can come in handy. One of the most unique ideas is to take old furniture and bits of wood that you might have laying around and turn them into some beautiful shelves. For instance, if you have an old table lying around, you can recycle the wood and create some custom-length shelves. Alternatively, if you have some sturdy wooden boxes from storing fruits and vegetables, they can easily be bolted onto the wall to create some rustic shelves.

2. Purchase the materials and tools

Next, you’ll want to purchase some tools and extra materials. For tools, you’ll ideally want a basic set that includes things such as a screwdriver, hammer and perhaps a drill if you plan to install your walls into a tough material. A live wire detector will also help.

For materials, it really depends on the type of shelf that you want to design. If you’re doing it from scratch, then most types of wood are generally considered fine. If you’re recycling some home furniture and materials, then you can save a lot of money.

In addition to the shelf itself, you need a way to mount it. If the material is thick enough, you can hide a mounting system in the shelf unit, such as holes to slot a metal rod into. However, the most common option is to use heavy duty angled corner brackets and bolt them to both the shelf and your wall. This provides a sturdy fit and can be used on any type of shelf.

3. Prepare your wall

Now you’ll want to prepare the wall. If you need to drill holes, make sure the furniture and carpets close to the wall have some kind of protection so you don’t get bits of wood and wallpaper everywhere.

The wall itself should also be examined for any wooden supports and wiring. You’ll typically need some kind of tool to locate the wiring so that you don’t accidentally drill into it. However, if you don’t have a drill then you can always hammer nails and other anchors into the wall instead.

4. Install your shelves
Now you can finally install your shelves. In most cases, you’re going to be bolting a bracket to the wall and then placing the shelf onto those brackets. Then, you’ll be using screws to attach the shelf unit to the other half of the brackets.

This part is easy, assuming you have a little help to hold the shelf while you screw it in. While you don’t need power tools for most materials, it’s still a good idea to speed up the process.

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Tough Love: Helping A Family Member Who Is Struggling With Addiction



It's one of the most heartbreaking things to see in life. When we have a member of the family that is struggling with addiction, it can tear a family apart. And when we are going through various problems with the family, this can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back. While we all need to learn how to reach out for help, what do we do when there's a family member that is struggling with addiction, but they cannot see it?


Identifying The Problem Early On
It's vital that we all know the signs and symptoms and if we feel that it's gone too far then we have to make sure that we get in contact with a professional. It might be important to share these observations with a professional centre. There are plenty of resources out there, such as the ANA treatment centre, which you can find out more about online. Speaking to a professional can help you to address the issue in the right way. Confronting the person who is struggling with an addiction isn't about the naming and shaming process. What we have to remember is to make sure that everybody is safe from potential harm.


Bringing Up The Subject To The Person Struggling With Addiction
This can be an incredibly tricky subject. It's important not to bring up the subject when the person is under the influence. It's important to establish a good time to talk when you and the person in question have time alone. The ultimate goal is to have a dialogue rather than telling them off. When you meet up, you must have an emphasis on care. It's important to list all the behaviours that you have seen as well as asking open-ended questions and avoiding judgement.


The Importance Of Treatment
It's crucial that we don't force treatment onto them, but we have to give them the whole picture. Treatment is essential because this may be the only way for them to cut back on their addictions. If the problems have occurred over a short period of time, the treatment doesn't have to be in a professional sense. Instead, we can help them through the issue with care and love. The person may be able to stop completely with the right emotional support but if there are relapses we have to think about professional treatment. Sometimes there are components like cognitive behavioural therapy or counselling that can help them to address the core issue of why they have an addiction. It's an incredibly difficult thing to sustain someone through when they are a family member because we may feel too close to them. It's a very difficult decision to make, such as whether you want to implement “tough love”, but in a professional sense, you have to think about it being a holistic approach, not just detoxification. Addiction is also about addressing their mental health as well.


And when someone needs help, especially in our family, it can mean that we are suffering as well. It's important to remember that when we are helping someone going through this, that we look after ourselves as well.

This time of year is one of the most common times that people really start to look at their finances a little closer. With Christmas and Ne...

Getting A Handle On Your Finances

This time of year is one of the most common times that people really start to look at their finances a little closer. With Christmas and New year being the most likely time for people to add their debt January tends to be the month where the need to assess and digest your finances is much needed. Whether you want to become debt-free, save for a large purchase or just have a little extra spare money through the year for holidays or house projects getting a handle on your finances is where it needs to start. 


It can be quite daunting to think about your finances especially if you and your family have fallen into the habit of living month by month with no saving or spare funds. However, delving into your finances in depth is the best way to move forward and become successful in the management of the household money. 

If you want to start to manage your finances better and forward to a future that is well managed have a look below at some of the ways you can get a good handle on your finances this year: 

What’s Coming In And Out? 

The first thing that you need to do is look at what funds you have come into the household and what funda you have left on a monthly basis. This means looking at both yours and your partner’s income, any child benefit you receive, any benefits you receive and then any other source of income such as child maintenance or tax credits. Total them up and you will have the figure of your total household income. You then need to look at your monthly outgoings. The key with this is to always include the worst-case scenario. So, if you sometimes spend £100 on petrol but the next month you have £150 always use the higher figure, this way you won’t fall into any nasty surprises. When looking at the money that has to leave your household, to start with leave out any debts that you’re paying other than those that are considered a bill, such as your mortgage or regular credit card payments. You can look at debts at a later time. Once you have both figures deduct your outgoing from your income and you’ll be left with your disposable income. Your disposable income is what you will use to pay off debts, enjoy days out and treat yourself from time to time. When looking at your monthly outgoings don’t forget to include things such as your toiletries, a few days out, eating out, your food allowance and clothing for you and any children. If you’re ever stuck on what to include there are many different lists available to use online

Look At Your Debts

Although it can be frustrating and a little daunting to look at your debts in depth it’s a good idea to know exactly where you stand. Even if you have a high amount of debt to repay, excluding your mortgage or car payments it’s still better to identify all of the money you owe. You should always have a good line of communication with anyone that you owe money to, you will find that having a good line of communication means that they’re more pleasant able to work with you to find an ideal solution to get debt clear. They will understand that living costs are high, and may request that fill out an expenditure form. This is where already looking at your finances is useful as you will already know how much disposable income you have to allocate to any debts. At times it may be a better option to look at things such as debt consolidation loan so you’re able to consolidate your debts into one easy payment however you do need to have a relatively decent credit rating to do this. If you consider this option make sure you always have a look at the secured loan FAQs section to understand what you’re applying for. Dealing with your debts in a proactive way will not only improve your credit rating but it will also remove any worry. Even if you can afford to make a small contribution on a monthly basis it’s better than not making any and it leading to further consequences such as bailiff’s attending your property or a CCJ

Getting Organised 

Something that many people fall down on is keeping organised. The only way that you’re going to keep a handle on your finances is if you’re organised. Otherwise, you risk leaving items off of your expenditure a not allocating the right household income to the right areas. Create a family folder that contains any important documents, including payslips, council tax paperwork, general bills, insurance paperwork, debt letters etc. Any new mail you receive would be placed in the folder. It can be very easy to let the folder get out of hand and for it to become unmanageable, so it’s a good idea to set some time to one side for sorting through it at least once every three months. Chuck out any old letter and only keep the most recent and the most relevant. You will get a level of satisfaction as you are slowly able to throw away letters of debts that have now gone because you’ve been allocating your money correctly. 

Savings 

Once you have started to manage your money and work to paying off your debts, you can look to starting some savings. Have a look at the amount of money you have left from your disposable income and have a think about what you’re saving for. Then you can start saving a certain amount each month. It’s a good idea to set up a saving account and save your funds at the start of each month instead of the end. People who save this way are much more successful as they’re less likely to dip into the funds that could be allocated to their savings potential. 

This is just a short guide to helping you get on top of your finances to start getting debt-free and saving, Do you have any other tips that you can share in the comments? 

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Why a Home Extension Could Be Great for Your Family

Ask most parents what they need to enhance family life and the answer is always the same - more space! Whether a first-time Mum with a new-born on the way, caring for boisterous toddlers or dealing with temperamental teens, chances are you could do with some extra space.
Although some families choose to move to a new property when they outgrow their existing home, this isn’t always the right option. If you love your current home and cherish the memories you’ve made there, you may not want to trade it for somewhere different. Furthermore, if you’re in a good school catchment area and have a network of support around you, you might be understandably reluctant to give this up.
Fortunately, there are other options. Instead of moving to a new location to access the space you need, you can enhance your home by adding an extension. With plenty of designs to consider, it’s easy to find one that works for your property and your family.
If you crave extra space but you’re not sure how to get it, take a look at how an extension can enhance your family life…
1. Reduced costs
Extending your existing home could be substantially cheaper than moving to a new property. If you want to access extra space, buying a property with an extra bedroom or reception room could be out of your budget. While moving to a cheaper area could enable you to do it, you could then be facing more in travel or commuting costs. In addition to this, buying or selling a property can involve fees, professional surveys and, sometimes, tax liabilities. 
In contrast, the cost of extending your home can be far less. While you’ll need to pay for the cost of labour and construction products, it is unlikely these will equate to the same level of investment that moving house requires. When you want to create space on a budget, a home extension is often the best way forward. 
2. Extra rooms
Extending your home gives you the freedom to create your own blueprint. For most people, however, the benefit of having more rooms is one of the main attractions. If you want your children to have their own rooms, for example, you could add a bedroom with a loft conversion or two-storey extension. 
If you crave more space downstairs, a wraparound extension will give you extra room at both the side and rear of your property. Alternatively, if you want somewhere quiet you can work from home, you can create your own bespoke garden office with heating, WiFi and electricity.
3. Increased value
Maximising the square footage of your home will increase its value. Although you might not be thinking of selling your property any time soon, it is always beneficial to increase the value of your home whenever you can. In fact, the cost of a home extension can often be offset by the positive impact it has on your house price. 
As well as benefiting you if you decide to sell in the future, increasing the value of your home could have other advantages too. If you ever want to remortgage and release equity, for example, the increased property value will give you more options. 
Perhaps you’d like to finance your child’s university education or buy them their first car? Maybe you’re planning a once-in-a-lifetime family holiday? Whatever you want to spend your money on, adding value to your property could increase the range of options available to your family. 
Enhancing Your Home With An Extension
As well as saving you money and increasing your options in the future, an extension can be a relatively stress-free way to secure extra space. While moving to a new home involves assessing potential locations, viewing houses and dealing with prospective buyers viewing your own home, choosing to extend your property is far simpler. 
Once you’ve decided on the type of extension you want for your home, you’ll simply need to choose your preferred building firm and decide when you would like to job completed. Having any work carried out on your home can be disruptive but it is far less hassle than trying to pack up your belongings and transport them to a new property. Indeed, a home extension can be completed in a fraction of the time it takes for a house purchase to be completed. 
If you’re looking for a simple and straightforward way to give your family the extra space they need, a home extension could be the ideal solution for you.  

Asmodee sent us this board game to review, all opinions are my own. #BoardGameClub Codenames is a game about spy's and agents, play...

Board Game Club: Codenames Review

Asmodee sent us this board game to review, all opinions are my own. #BoardGameClub
Codenames card game on a navy background

Codenames is a game about spy's and agents, played with a minimum of 4 players aged around 14+ so this isn't a game for the little ones as it's slightly confusing.

The aim of the game is for your team to make contact with all the agents before the other teams do, the aim. Of the game is fairly simple where as the rules are the ones that may get you!
Using a minimum of four players get in to teams of two, choose amongst yourself who will be the Spy Master and who will be the field operatives, the two spy masters sit next to each other one on side of the table and both field operatives on the other side.

 The next step is to randomly choose 25 codenames cards and place them on the table in a 5-by-5 grid making sure that you shuffle them well before hand.
Each game has one "key" card that reveals the secret identities of the cards on the table. The spymasters should choose the key cards randomly from the pack and slide it into the stand between them, just makes sure you don't let the field operatives see it!

The key card relates to the grid of cards on the table. Blue squares relate to words that Blue Team must guess (blue agents). Red squares relate to words that Red Team must guess (red agents). Light squares are innocent bystanders, and the black square is an assassin who should never be contacted at all.

Got all that? Still with me? Good!

Now your set up we can play, so each team takes turns trying to guess the secret identities of their own agents using a single worded clue from their spymaster.


The spymaster can only say a single word as a clue and a number. The number that they can say is the number of cards on the board that this clue applies to. Remember the spymaster must keep a straight face and try not to give any other info away.

The agents then can guess the card with the clue they received and if they guess correctly the spy master will cover that card with a bystander and If a bystander is revealed then the turn is passed. If the assassin is revealed then that team loses instantly. The game is over. You will win the game by guessing all of the agent cards.

Thats it! So it's slightly confusing to learn especially for younger ones but definitely alot of fun. The game itself isn't somthing i'd play regularly as I enjoy playing with my children but it may be fun when they're older.

If you are trying to work out what you can do to attract more potential partners towards you, then there are many ways that you can approac...

4 Sure Ways To Attract More People

If you are trying to work out what you can do to attract more potential partners towards you, then there are many ways that you can approach this. It is important to remember, however, that the most important thing is that you pay respect to your own truth, and that you place that far above anything that you might learn from anyone else. That being said, there are some pretty sure-fire ways to ensure that you are going to attract more people, and in this article we are going to take a look at just a few of the best.

Smile More

People respond well to people who smile - that’s a scientific fact, and one that you can use to ensure that you are drawing as many people to you as possible. The more you smile, the more trustworthy and engaged you seem, and the friendlier people will assume you to be. If you are unhappy with your teeth or gums, be sure to fix them in whatever way necessary - composite bonding for straighter teeth, whitening, or just more effective cleaning. Plus - and this might sound silly, but it works - try practising your smile in the mirror at home too.


Engage With Them

People remember people who are very engaged with them. If you are only kind of half in the conversation, then people might struggle to even remember you, let alone to feel that you made a particularly good impression. One good way to show that you are more engaged than that is to make a point of remembering a few key facts about them: their name, crucially, but also any other hints that you have received from them. This will show that you are listening, and not just going through the motions when you have a conversation.

Hold Yourself Tall

Everyone will give you much more attention if you appear to be lacking in self-concern and doubt. One way to clearly express that is to stand tall. The magical thing about body language is that it can generate the feeling you are trying to convey for real. So if you make a point of standing tall, you will soon enough feel a lot better about yourself, and more outward-facing and extroverted. That is only going to be a good thing when you are trying to attract someone towards you. Stand tall, and proud, and watch as people start looking in your direction.


Be Real

Ultimately, you need to be genuine. Most people can smell fakery a mile off, and if there is any sense that you are somehow hiding beneath a veneer, it is going to be a big turn off. You need to be as real as you can be, and to show who you are as best as you can. That means opening yourself up to vulnerability, which is something that most people hate, but it is essential if you are to attract someone loving into your life. If you can be real, you will be able to attract people towards you in no time.