Sex and Body Confidence....
While during the day you ooze out all of that confidence in certain things you do when you get to the bedroom its a whole new ballpark, sex isn't always a walk in the park like it looks in the movies, you may accidentally butt heads, you may 'scream the wrong name' (OH SHIT), and you may not look like how you imagined in your head...
Body confidence in the bedroom is a bitch! Even those of you who consider yourself an 'expert' in the sack can feel like this! But don't worry its so normal! Confidence doesn't grow overnight so here are some tips for the now and the rest will grow with you.
1. Your partner will more than likely have insecurities too, we're all human after all!
2. Concentrate on your arousal, thinking about how you look will turn you off, try and concentrate on the sensations.
3. Turn off the lights? It's not the greatest solution but not being able to see your body will take your mind off it all and heighten your other senses.
4. Do some sexy research... Look online, maybe even watch some porn (just don't expect your sex to be like this), maybe even try to learn some new techniques?
5. If all else fails, create a sexy alter ego... Imagine being this sexy superstar and bring that into the bedroom, Imagine she's fearless in the bedroom and hopefully that will help!
Just remember that the chances are your partner actually likes you ...every part of you and isn't thinking anything critical about you at all, anyone who does isn't worth your time, your a goddess let him treat you like one.
It's only sex- just enjoy it!
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